A Way Out

Has there ever been a time in your life when you feel like there’s nothing but a feeling of stagnancy?? A depressing time where one feels like the world has literally ended?? Well, it’s not the current feeling that matters. Getting past through that phase should be prioritized rather than overlooked. A lot of people always seem to know what the problem is but never know what to do about it.

Some are born fucking lucky while others are born less fortunate than others. But people without the silver spoon people can also prosper with the right steps and motivation. Firstly, recognizing God as the head has got to be the most significant thing on the list. As God is given the recognition he deserves, you will definitely get a way out one way or the other. It could be the easy or hard way. Either ways, it’s still a movement forward.

Secondly, having a plan to follow through should give one the support he/she needs. When there’s a plan, there’s a solution. One knows where he/she is coming from and further knows where they’re going. A plan is like a map. When that map is followed thoroughly, one can find the final destination. Same thing with difficulties. If a plan is followed, the results become instantaneous. 

I'd  type more but then, i'd bore your fucking lives. Just comment and help me spread the world ;)

Loneliness Or Poverty?

         Yes, it has gotten to that point of my life where i'v started asking non imperative questions that  wouldn't change the price of Garri (LOL). Before getting deep into this question, it'll do us some good if both words are first of all thoroughly explained before drawing up conclusions.


          ----->>>> The dictionary defines "Loneliness" as 1) A disposition towards being alone. 2) Sadness resulting from being alone in solitary isolation; while it shortly describes "Poverty" As a state of having little or no money. Loneliness can be caused by so many unfortunate factors such as heartbreaks, trust or even financial conditions. Loneliness in terms of heartbreaks is probably the most sadening of all three. This is a situation where a man/woman might choose to be lonely for previous/present heartbreaks. Loneliness by trust is a situation where a person chooses to stay alone due to trust issues and maybe has gotten backstabbed on countable situations by ex-friends. And finally, loneliness by poverty is better explained with this statement "No Money No Friend".(LOL)

         
          Off to the main point before Y'all get bored, i think it's important half of you sit down to think about this before replying- "Would you rather live in poverty and have true friends experience it with you or you would like it better if you had wealth and lived with it all alone?". Yes, i know half of you will think having all the money in the world can buy you friends... However, it can never buy you real friends. I'd rather live in a state of life where i'd have friends to that'll understand and live with my unfortunate predicaments than have all the money in the world and be as lonely as fuck. Your thoughts?

**Tribute**

         Iv had this for a while but i decided not to make any fuss at blogging this but over the past few days, I'v been resulted to doing this due to the disrespect that i and Britney Spears have been getting via twitter.

        On sunday 28th august 2011, the VMA's aired on MTV worldwide with various award presentations and performances from both nominated and buzzed artists... Artists like Kanye and Jay-Z, Chris Breezy, Weezy And Lady GaGa (To hell with every other performances) performed and managed to save the night from MTV's flopped ideas to make it "the perfect awards show". I personally was most excited to see the "Britney Spears Tribute" because a week prior to the awards show, rumours were flying around like airplanes saying various music artists were set to take the stage in a breath taking stage performance for the Pop Queen.

       With my hopes up in the air filled with joy and excitement patiently waiting for this tribute, Lady GaGa proceeds to the stage saying a few nice things about Britney and how she's been a musical inspiration to today's artists (FAMZINGGGGG) and in a slight second, i see children dressed in Britney outfits from her music videos and past VMA performances dancing trying to immitate Britney's signature choreography from the past years which left me speechless and thinking to myself maybe it was the pre-tribute performance. After the children danced, Lady GaGa welcomes Britney on stage where there was some lesbian to be kiss scene (I really wished it happened buh Britney has kissed Madonna and Rihanna so, it's all good) which was really cute. Then all of a a sudden, Michael Jackson is brought up in the speech which led to Britney introducing Beyonce's pperformance. (WTF???)

       I am not mad at Lady GaGa (To clear up future beef) because she did do a good job at trying to make Britney feel relevant at that time. My anger points towards MTV and Britney for three simple reasons. Firstly, why in heaven's name would Britney let that kinda shit happen in her own moment? It wasn't bad enough that the tribute performance by little kids sucked but to add to this disrespect, Britney didn't even get to say a proper speech before introducing Beyonce's performance. Secondly, one could tell MTV wasn't organized or ready enough this year. I mean a show that has no host is like a farmer without a cutlass which shows this year's VMA's was rushed to bring in ratings. Lastly, A tribute performance should have had more time. Even Amy Winehouse's tribute performance by Bruno Mars seem to garner more respect than Britney's which is totally wrong and disrespectful.

      I know Nigerians are stupid enough not to appreciate music like Britney's buh it pisses me off anytime i see insultive tweets about Britney Spears. She has (and still is) making her money! Have you made yours?? FUCK YOU and kindly unfollow me on twitter if you've got an issue against that beautiful, kind and lovely woman that im set to marry soon. B-)

**Failure**

-   After two failed attempts at tryna obtain a California driver's license, My discouragement meter spiked up for just not failing the test but rather the fact that i wont be driving anytime in the nearest future. I remember the level of confidence i had boosted in me minutes before and after i took the test having imagined myself driving the fuck outta my house everyday without any bullshit yarns from anyone and most importantly, feeling like a G! 8-|

    On the way back from the DMV, my uncle made unsuccessful attempts to talk me outta my sadness for an about an hour which even turned me into more of a mess than i previously was. To be honest though, i payed attention to just one statement which that he made which was  "Failure is an important phase of life. If you donot fail, you are headed for a life of doom". He further explains "If one doesn't go through trials, the person is headed to a life of frustration and early death.
  
    When that statement was made, i started to pay attention to his beliefs and theories on failure (which is quite unusual for me because when he starts his talk, i just put my earpiece on). We all understand the concept of "Failure" (That fucked up feeling/phase in our lives where we feel as bad as shit to move on to higher or better things) and it's painful effects on human lives. However, i do not believe everyone has to have "hard times" or "Fail" to live a better life for the future. As a matter of fact, i think you are a G if you've never failed at all in life but i know searching for that is like searching for someone hotter than Britney Spears ;).

    Yes, nobody is perfect and we all make fucked decisions however, if you had a chance never to make mistakes, would you take it? Do you think you would live a life of frustration or doom? I Conclude with this- Your decisions shouldn't have to lead you to failure before you move on to greener pastures.

ATTENTION- Thanks for reading and kindly leave comments. If you are here to bash this blog, Go and smoke chalk or something (LOL). This is dedicated to Onyinye Okereke for encouraging this piece of essay i had written for a while now. - PEACE